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16 contributions to Men of High-Status Networking
4d ago in
The Right Compliments
As we all know, simps like to point out the obvious when talking to hot chicks - that they’re hot. Even as a guy, even I get irritated and cringe from guys who point out the fucking obvious. It’s redundant! Anyone with half a brain hates redundancies anyone who has to fill the role of Captain Obvious! Women in particular know you’re only talking to her for more than a minute because she’s attractive! The only kinda compliments she wants to hear are something that genuinely comes from the soul and about her character, not about her looks. When you do that, you’re - in a way - dehumanizing her, reducing her to just an image. It’s not a negative judgment, but it’s still a judgment nonetheless. When you boil it all down, judgment is boxing someone into a category, positive or negative. And all it does is overly simplify (god knows I hate it), makes people look one-dimensional and uninteresting… like a simp or nice guy is… Really boils down our internal realities affecting our external realities. If you’re one dimensional, you’re gonna do and say one dimensional shit (shit that’s not at all interesting or gonna have any measurable impact)… Goddamn it’s 3:23 AM PST, and I’m still up and hustling… but it’s what I gotta do, and I get super reflective at night like the nocturnal animal I am…
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New comment 7h ago
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I like to use backhanded complements, then move forward like it never happened. And if they try to bring it up I’ll sarcastically gaslight them (letting them know I’m obviously gaslighting) makes them laugh every time. “What? I couldn’t have said that do you know how crazy you sound? It’s like you don’t know me at all, we’re already growing apart” etc etc
Oct 28 in
Women always assume your hitting on them
I decided to ask my question in an audio recording for the full context. I’m gonna start making recordings of myself to better ask these questions with full context and clarity for my questions instead of just trying to type a bunch of text for these questions. I have questions about female friends and me practicing making female friends.
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New comment 3d ago
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At work is my hunting grounds 😂 So I say dude or fucker a lot. So when I want to make a female friend I’ll be like “what’s up dude? How’s work goin” and I add some jokes, ask some questions and then I LEAVE! A big problem guys have is they linger because they want more and it gets boring quick. By being a funny cool guy and then leaving them to their work it installs this perception of you as the funny cool guy. If you linger, they’ll feel the awkwardness too. If it’s awkward, they aren’t going to be receptive. If you want them to be your friend bring up the imaginary girlfriend, make up a short brief story of something embarrassing you did in front of her. Ease the tension. Women are deer bro, they’ve got their guard up. They need to know you’re a damn lion…but a lion that is currently full and has no intention of eating know what I mean?
18d ago in
Vets day
To all my veterans, thank you so much for what you do. Joined this group for like minded people, and I’m glad some of you are retards like I am. You guys did what so many others didn’t. Signing the dotted line. One of the most annoying things we hear is “I was going to serve but” (insert bs comment). You did it. 1% of the population, and for that we owe you much more than a free coffee today
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New comment 16d ago
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@Alphonso Cornelius boot camp was such a joke 🤣 I thought it would be harder. But it was some of the most fun I’ve ever had. The deployments were the worst. I was on the Kentucky and the Maine
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@Alphonso Cornelius ah coast guard. So gay 😂 I loved hitting up the coast guard academy while I was in sub school. Like shootin fish in a barrel those ladies lol I kinda miss the navy, but glad I’m making this big money now opposed to that poor life
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Oooo I’ve got a good one. Shoulders. Every time I start doin shoulders, even light weights, after a few workouts my shoulder will get an insane burning inside the joint. Feels like where the top of the muscle is attached but also feels kind of like a tendon. It will last like 2-3 days, ruins sleep it’ll feel so inflamed it’ll wake me up from a dead sleep and I’m a HARD sleeper. Is this due to just overdoing it? (Highly doubt) or have you heard of this?
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@Oliver N not sure if I’ve messed it up before. I’m lifting like light should press on the machine. Might just stick to light dumbells overhead
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@john-carter-4253
Bastrop, TX (Austin) @cmdr.johncarter / @girthofgod
Active 7h ago
Joined Aug 26, 2024
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