So I finally got ahold of my cousin- the son of my great aunt.
I did ask my dad and he said she had him later in life.
My cousin confirmed that there were service connections. He was always told about the army connection but found service medals for the Air Force. So seeing what else I can get from him- trying to go slowly wit him so I’ll keep you updated.
Andrea- do you happen to have all the information you wrote down that night? If not- I’ll look for the recording!