I realized that I'm a people pleaser quite late. In my early fifties. Does it really matter to work on it now? I kept putting off working at it. And realized that life feels bad despite having got successes on the outside.
So, I re-read No more Mr.Nice Guy and went through few Dan's courses on Udemy.
Looking forward to getting over this syndrome and getting more satisfaction and fulfillment from life. While helping others to do the same.
Cheers!