Sleep used to be easy. Lay down, close your eyes, wake up ready to conquer the world. But now, you're 40+ and getting a decent night’s sleep can feel like trying to negotiate peace between warring nations.
You’ve probably tried a few solutions—extra pillows, maybe even a white noise app—but here’s the reality: your sleep needs an upgrade. Here’s how to get better rest without resorting to scented candles or $200 blackout curtains.
1. Skip the Screens (or At Least Dim Them Down)
That endless scroll before bed? It’s doing you no favors. The blue light from your phone messes with your melatonin, the hormone that tells your brain it’s time to wind down. If ditching the phone isn’t happening, at least dim the brightness or switch to night mode. Or, if you’re feeling ambitious, set a timer to put the screen away an hour before bed.
2. The Bedroom is for Sleeping, Not TV Marathons
Your bedroom should feel like a place of rest, not a second living room. If you’re binge-watching from bed, you’re training your brain to stay awake here. Turn the bed back into a sleep zone: no screens, no work, and maybe even fewer piles of laundry.
3. Set a Sleep Schedule (You’re Not in College Anymore)
Gone are the days of bouncing back after all-nighters. Your body thrives on a regular sleep schedule. Try to go to bed and wake up at the same time each day—even on weekends. Consistency is what helps your body reset and catch those elusive, quality Z’s.
4. Stop Drinking Caffeine Like It’s Water
Caffeine stays in your system for hours, so drinking it late in the day is practically a guarantee you’ll be staring at the ceiling at midnight. Try to keep coffee and other stimulants to the morning and early afternoon. If you need an afternoon pick-me-up, try a glass of water or a quick walk instead.
5. Embrace the Dark (Blinds Aren’t Just for Blocking the Neighbors)
Your body needs darkness to fully shift into sleep mode. Streetlights, digital clocks, even that tiny glow from the TV power light—all disrupt your sleep. Try heavy blinds or an eye mask to keep things truly dark. You might feel like a vampire, but at least you’ll sleep like one.
6. Keep the Room Cool (Your Future Self Will Thank You)
Your body temperature naturally drops when you sleep, so a cool room helps set the stage. Aim for around 65-68°F if you can. Yes, it might feel a bit chilly at first, but once you’re under the covers, you’ll sleep soundly without sweating through the sheets.
7. Don’t Lie in Bed Thinking About Tomorrow’s To-Do List
Nothing kills sleep faster than mentally running through every task you need to accomplish tomorrow. Try jotting down a quick to-do list an hour before bed. Clear your mind before you hit the pillow, and you’ll be less likely to lie awake thinking about emails or grocery lists.
8. Say No to Late-Night Snacks (And No, Wine Doesn’t Count as a Sleep Aid)
Late-night munchies might feel satisfying, but eating close to bedtime messes with digestion, which can keep you awake. Also, alcohol might make you feel drowsy, but it disrupts the deeper stages of sleep. Instead, wrap up any eating at least a couple of hours before bed and let your body focus on rest, not digestion.
9. Move a Little During the Day (So Your Body Actually Feels Tired)
Physical activity isn’t just about fitness—it actually improves sleep quality. You don’t need a gym membership; even a daily walk can make a difference. A bit of movement helps tire you out so your body is ready to rest when night rolls around.
10. Don’t Fight Insomnia—Get Up Instead
If you’re tossing and turning for more than 20 minutes, don’t force yourself to lie there. Get up, do something relaxing (no screens, remember?), and only head back to bed when you’re actually sleepy. Trying to “force” sleep rarely works; sometimes, you just need a little reset.
Sleeping well at 40+ is less about chasing miracle cures and more about doing the basics right. With a few adjustments to your nightly routine, you can get the restful, uninterrupted sleep your body’s begging for.
No need to build a perfect sleep sanctuary—just a few simple hacks, and you’re set to catch some real, solid sleep.