• Today Gaby had to remind me to pay Netflix to my own father, something I always forget to do.
• She also had to remind me to buy our groceries online, because I had been delaying it.
• When I proposed to go buy our cat's food, she told me to only buy two cans, because she's planning to try a new brand. She's bearing the mental load of checking what kind of food Kami needs.
• Gaby bears the mental load of checking the condition of our shower: does it have fungi? Is the drain clogged?