Even way before kids, my wife made a lot of decisions for us, simply because I live such a go with the flow existence that I really don't care where we go, what we eat, or what we watch. Usually, she is more than happy to take control of those things and make decisions. I wish I would've taken that off of her plate more during ALL of her postpartums. It's such a small gesture but just make the decision, she may not like it in the moment and that's ok too, but just keep doing it. This small but huge gesture will go a long way. I would even go as far as to say, tell her that you are going to be making the decisions during this time period. Trust me, it will help her, even if she doesn't see it right away.
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