Listen lads at the end of the day you can read, you can watch, you can listen to all of the pickup and dating advice you want. You can extract all of the knowledge you want from sitting around and learning, but guess what none of that shit will even matter if you cant even work up the balls to approach. Take me as an example, i remember when i first started figuring out how to seduce women and become more attractive to them i literally spent 4 months reading, taking notes, watching videos etc on how to pick up chicks and guess what? I didnt approach a single chick during that time, guess what bruv you dont become big by reading a book on body science and nutrition sure it can help but you actually get big by going to the gym and figuring out how to workout yourself. now another point is that you will LEARN your own way of approaching, of attracting, which will in turn make you more authentic which is something steph says is extremely important. if you just replicate the way another person approaches, and attracts etc you will emulate them which is not good, because you're not being you - you're pretending to be someone you're not. So EVEN if you hit it off with this girl and got to know her she will see straight through you eventually, she will see you for your insecure self. sorry lads but this is how it is, in order to attract you need to be yourself, you need to approach, you need to become confident your own way, you just need to get out there and fucking do it. EMBRACE EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS TO YOU if you get rejected good, who gives a fuck you keep on going and going until you get it right not every single women is going to be attracted to you. if you keep this up and you embrace rejection what you are doing is you are becoming more and more sure of yourself, everytime you get turned away you say to yourself oh well she lost, move on, and find another girl. DONE

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