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5d ago in
If you’re NEW read THIS
A lot of you guys are new and have gotten accepted. First off congratulations, you made the right choice. Introduce yourself in the comments below and tell the group what YOU are personally struggling with. Judgement free zone. This is YOUR brotherhood!
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New comment 2d ago
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Hey I’m Isaiah and I’m 19 living in Texas. First and foremost I wanna thank Steph for allowing me in here and helping me and everyone out, it means a lot. The issue I struggle with usually is finding girls that have boyfriends already, and I don’t want to go to the areas I usually hang out at like the gym, my job or school to hit on girls because then I don’t want to look like a hoe lol. I’ve been chilling lately but it’s been getting lonely so I’ve been talking to girls here and there and it’s always they have a bf. I just tell them take it as a compliment that they’re pretty and have the good rest of their day.
10d ago in
What works for me
So I’ve got another girls number today and one thing that usually works for me is a conversation starter, complement, and then their number. So when you start a conversation you look for something they’re doing ( gym, how many sets does she have left) ( coffee, where did she get the coffee from) etc. then they answer. After they answer you can say something else or you can just tell them “ thank you, but honestly I just thought you were really pretty and wanted to talk to you” she’s gunna say thank you or something like that. After you can do small talk like “where’s she’s from” or “what she has planned for the rest of the day”. If she says she has a boyfriend or she’s not interested be okay with that. Simply tell her “no worries, take it as a compliment and enjoy the rest of your day” Seth does this a lot and I’ve picked up this strategy from him and it seems to help me a lot
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New comment 5d ago
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@Geoffrey R good question honestly and it’s happened to me a few times. Typically when they have a boyfriend they’ll let you know and when they do I usually tell them. “ ohh okay I understand, take it as a compliment and enjoy the rest of your day” when you do this you’re not coming across as desperate, or begging. When you tell them a compliment and tell them enjoy the rest of their it ends y'all's interaction in a good note. You don’t want to keep pushing and trying to get her number if she says she has a boyfriend because when she says she has a boyfriend’ she’s not interested. There’s plenty of girls out there so just keep going
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@Andy Smith honestly man my advice for you is to make the opportunity, you have more opportunities than you think, we as men tend to get in our heads a lot and don’t think we do. Don’t be scared to go up to her and tell her she’s pretty man you got it
10d ago in
Got a number
Went up to 2 girls last night at a party and ended up getting cool with one and got her number 💯
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12d ago in
Approaching Girls
Have ANY of you approached a girl today? Reply below with your answer and if your answer is now say why down below. ⬇️
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New comment 7d ago
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No not yet but I still have a full day today to approach some. I’ll update y'all when I do.
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