lmao. I had to sit with this one. I’ve never intentionally capped. Women tend to make assumptions about me though… and certain assumptions I don’t correct. I had one girl I was in a relationship as if I was a millionaire. 😂 My response what “you will never know if I am or if I’m not.” - basically not answering her question. … soon learned that women that ask these sorts of money questions are more interested in the money. Needless to say I dodged a bullet. My experience has been, women tend to make assumptions or come up with fairytales in their mind… I don’t have to lie… but idk if it’s considered Capping if I don’t correct them

Im glad he's communicating... but he seems to be communicating with the wrong woman... he might want to talk to the woman that pregnant with his child and see if they can work through the grievances. By the way he's leading it would make sense his lady would take his lead, and do the same thing. Also, if she's hugged up and it seems like it's that deep... I'd also be getting a paternity test. but in the moment, I wouldn't trip. Id wait until she came home and would talk to her then.

I would have to say attracting. Not attracting just any woman, but attracting the RIGHT woman for me has been a challenge. Once I'm able to attract women with similar values, I believe the maintenance will be challenging, but also doable.

I'm interested in learning more about #7 and why it's a red flag

To redirect the conversation… sometimes it’s easier to criticize someone personally, than it is to accept the discomfort of a plausible argument.