Guys often ask me "How do I get back out in the dating market. I broke up with my (wife/girlfriend) of (blank years) and wanting to start dating again, but I get unsure of myself when it comes to approaching and opening women...." Or some version of this question. Here is kind of a neat trick for you to try. You are going to let your cognitive biases work to an advantage here. I remember back in my much younger days how it always used to annoy me that a few of my friends who were players would always think that every girl wants to fuck them. Even when it was completely irrational and untrue. Yet, they were the ones getting pussy during a time when I was absolutely not and still figuring it out. The irrational self confidence they had carried over into their game. They assumed girls wanted to fuck them, so they approached women confidently and with that frame. They got rejected like anyone does but ignored those rejections, and yet when they got laid they used that to confirm their irrational bias that every girl wanted them. But it worked! There is a way in which you can create a bias that is actually a lot less irrational, and will boost your self confidence. What I want you to do is the entry level pick up activity of just talking to strangers. Make social connections with strangers and graduate to hot girls. So have small conversations with hot girls, and gauge their reactions. Then don't close them or take it any further (intentionally). This does a number of things that is actually genius. One is you take the pressure off of yourself when you know you aren't going to close or take it anywhere. This almost eliminates any rejection fear and boosts your confidence. Two is your vibe will be chill. The girl will sense that you aren't trying to get anything from her. This will increase your perception of value. She will be more interested. You will get a lot of girls who will show indicators of interest. With any girl you can gauge after a single conversation whether or not they would want to fuck you on a scale of like 0-100.

Title is self explanatory. This is pretty useful info to know for vetting women and leading relationships: https://youtu.be/EoGvdQ1rVdM?si=4wiCJJpkRA1sfjOt

In the space of 48 hours, I have lost my kids and a business partner. Time to forge a new identity. Separation under Japanese law means I can be arrested if I so much as stand outside school to get a glimpse of them playing in the courtyard. I am grieving this abrupt loss. As for the business, sometimes it is better to stay in the friendzone rather than invest time, energy and money. All in all, everything happens for the best. I start with a blank slate. I am becoming the hero I am dreaming of. I am now writing the next chapters of my life. It is time to empty my cup, let go of the bagage and reset. I am grateful the wife pulled the plug as opposed to 6 years later. It would have been tougher to rebuild. I am grateful things did not work out with this business project. Something else will be calling. It all starts from being intentional, getting clarity. There is no better place than this old Japanese thermal spring located in a volcano crater under a typhoon to strip everything and gain clarity

So I have a plate/ltr its been about 6 months and the sex has been pretty fucking good. She always orgasms several times and even goes into some a deep out of body type of psychedelic experience. Recently she has cried twice and I read about it and there are some negatives and in my case because the relationship is relatively healthy and there isn't any toxicity, I believe it's a very fast high/low mood change after an intense orgasm that causes this. @Paul Benjamin I wanted to get your expert take on the subject and learn more about this. and of course if anyone would like to share their experience with this. I bet Laurent probably has some interesting story like this in his back pocket. O.k To be clear this is not bawling, snot bubble crying, it's like tears of joy or something.

Hey guys, I have to cancel tonight's mastermind call due to a military obligation. We will reschedule for Sunday 8pm EST