For everyone who is currently a member of the group as of Nov 21 2024, CONGRATS! You have free access to this group for life. In order to prevent scammers and keep the quality of the members high, we have moved over to a $5/mo subscription model for this page. This starts today. This will keep out everyone joining to SPAM you with messages to join their "get rich quick" groups or other violations of our community rules. Reply below if you have questions 💪

Hey everyone! I grew up a bit spoiled when it comes to money, so I never really needed to work as a kid. Now, as I approach 30, I’m struggling to motivate myself to work consistently. I have an amazing job in sales where I could make a ton of money if I just committed fully, but I keep procrastinating until I run into financial issues. When that happens, I’ll work hard to make the money I need, but then I start cutting back on my hours again. What’s interesting is that I have no problem staying consistent with the gym, but when it comes to work, it’s a completely different story. I really want to become a hard worker. Do you have any tips or book recommendations to help me build this mindset? Thanks in advance!

I tell me girl when she asks about her that cus she is skinny that i would preffer a bigger butt on her and also improve her teeth. All the girls told me its horrible what i said and that i dont accept her for what she is etc. I talk about het butt on a weekly basis so i guess its to much maybe. So like what honesty is it the best to go. tell dont tell i dont know. Its not to big of a problem just want to know what u think i am new to longterm dating. Also i am taking relationship therapy already a year so i am getting used to solving arguments etc.

I have a fearful avoidant attachment style. How can I become more secure? Are there any good books, YouTube videos, or real-life practices that can help? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

My girl is helping me. Thoughts? How would u rate it and how to improve it. https://www.instagram.com/urbanvidmarofficial?igsh=MWZmNjltdG0wenBzMQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr