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3 REASONS WHY YOU CANT FIND A GODLY WOMAN
“A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels:” - Proverbs 1:5
- LUST = (projecting your sexual desire onto uninterested women.)
MODERN MEN HAVE BEEN LED TO BELIEVE THAT PHYSICAL ATTRACTION WORKS DIFFERENTLY FOR WOMEN, SO AS LONG AS YOU KEEP TRYING SHE WILL FINALLY GO OUT WITH YOU.
There are plenty of pickup artists and other modern men that deceive innocent, insecure and lustful men to believe that they can get any woman so long as they force themselves into her life. They think "If I try hard enough, flirt, seduce her, pursue her , shower her with affection… then she will all of a sudden feel the same way back". Not only is this the biggest lie sold to men, but it also has the opposite effect on desire. The very idea that you can barter and negotiate desire in of itself comes from a lack of understanding of attraction, women, and relationships.
No amount of appreciation for her physical beauty will make her feel the same towards you. Only women with excessive vanity will temporarily involve themselves with an unattractive man as it offers them a steady source of external validation.
- FRIENDSHIP = (attempting to form a platonic bond with an uninterested woman)
MODERN MEN HAVE BEEN TOLD THAT IF OVERPURSING DOESN'T WORK, YOU SHOULD SUPPRESS YOUR DESIRE FOR HER AND PRETEND TO BE HER FRIEND AND HOPEFULLY SHE WILL START TO LIKE YOU BACK.
We have all seen the typical guy get friend-zoned. This happens because he assumes that if he goes the platonic route, she will see his worth and start to feel the same way about him that he does about her. What he fails to understand is that if she had a genuine romantic desire in dating him, she wouldn't be his friend in the first place.
No amount of time invested in a friendship with a woman will make her suddenly develop physical attraction towards you. Only women who are attention seekers will eventually lower their standards and build a limited bond with a man they have relegated to the friendzone.
- MATERIALISM = (attempting to flatter an uninterested woman via use of status, wealth and fame)
MODERN MEN HAVE BEEN LED TO BELIEVE THAT YOU SHOULD BUILD YOUR WEALTH AND USE IT TO GET A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN TO GO OUT WITH YOU.
Plenty of wealthy and successful men that lack understanding of women make the fatal mistake of using expensive trips and dates, using their influence, social status, fame, wealth, and any other tools at their disposal in attempts to convince uninterested women to go out with them. These grandiose gestures only communicate that you are overcompensating for what you feel you lack inside. Either you meet her minimum looks requirements or you don't. You cannot raise a woman's interest where there is none, to begin with.
No amount of material possessions, wealth, or social status will make a woman "feel attraction for you". Only gold diggers and women with low self-esteem will look and fall for those superficial qualities.
Conclusion.
As the old saying goes "You can't buy love". The only woman that will date a man who makes sad attempts to win her over or buy her affection is an immoral woman.
The only type of man interested in forcing a woman to like him back is a man who is self- righteous. A righteous man knows his worth. He does not waste his precious time in the friend zone or trying to sell a woman different reasons why she should go on a date with him. He only goes where there is mutual attraction, effort, and reciprocation.
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3 REASONS WHY YOU CANT FIND A GODLY WOMAN
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