Value: it's NOT about you, but about THEM!

You know, I've been scratching my head over my posts on skool. I'd share stuff I thought was good, only to have it disappear into the ether. At first, I thought maybe I was being "annoying." But it wasn't that.

The real issue was that I wasn't considering the people *running* the groups. They're the ones who decide what's valuable and what's noise.

This realization has been a game-changer. It's made me hyper-aware of my audience. If I want to go to hangout at someone's house, I better honor what they prefer vs doing my own thing. ..

I can't be posting in groups if it just doesn't align with those who are the keepers of the group.

For a while, I just stop posting because I couldn't figure it out until I had this moment of clarity. Especially here in the Skool Community. Rather than being focus of why my posts and comments are being taken down, I want to focus on how can I bring more value that this particular group prefers.

So, the lesson here is that value, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder. It's not about me; it's about them.

What's the biggest lesson you've learned about sharing his on the Skool Community?

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