What would a healthy spouse be like? Chances are that all of us have a list of answers to that question. I bet you could spend 10-20 minutes just writing down all the ways that a healthy spouse would talk, think, work, and behave, etc. Answers to this question might be answers like: - A healthy spouse is patient. - A healthy spouse champions his partner. - A healthy spouse isn’t lazy. - A healthy spouse talks about hard things. And that’s what I want to invite you to do today. Write down as many answers as you can think of to the above question. The list could get pretty long. That’s great. Just keep writing until you have nothing else to add. ✍️ So first: 1. Write down as many answers as you can think of to the question - what would a HEALTHY spouse be like? THEN when you’re done I want you to do one more thing: 2. I want you to circle 3 of your answers that YOU need to work on. Take 30 minutes to do this exercise and then share what you came up with and what you plan on working on with each other!

Hey friends, I wanted to share my first resource with all of you for being the founding members of the Couples Collective. 👊 I am a BIG believer in being intentional about dating your spouse. Because you and I know that love and intimacy won't grow by accident but through intentional and consistent action. BUT I also know that it's easier said than done. Honestly, I have had many seasons where I have allowed life and work to distract me from making going on regular dates with Jena a priority. Even after being married for 18 years, we still have to be intentional about this. That's why I created a resource that I wish I had when I first got married. ⚡️The Dating Cheatcode - 52 done for you date ideas! ⚡️ Feel free to download it and enjoy! 💭 PS...Have other resource ideas that you think would be helpful? Let me know in the comments! :)