Have you ever thought that if you talk about how much you love your high-paying career, share how much money you make, talk about the house you’re planning to buy or the MBA you earned last year that got you a promotion…he’s going to be attracted to you and choose you out of all the women in the world to be his girlfriend. Unfortunately, men don’t operate like that. Well, at least not healthy masculine men. When you try to impress him with what you have and what you’ve done in an attempt to make him see you as having higher value against other women, it actually has the opposite effect. I know. I was surprised too. I share all about him and why your success turns off a masculine man in THIS journal entry this week. Read all the details!

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To follow is “to move behind and in the same direction”. This essentially means you see and acknowledge his plans, agree with them and move with him towards that destination. In other words, what you're communicating to him by following him is “what you want for your life is great. I agree with it and I support you.” This is HUGE for a man. This lets him know you trust him and makes him feel respected. Men go and stay in places they feel respected. Conversely, if a man is taking you down a dark alley with no plans, explanation or understanding, you will feel hesitation to follow. Women tend to not follow when the destination is not clear, you don't like the destination or don't understand why or how it benefits you. Notice if this is preventing you from following him. You may just need clarity, more information or understanding. Talk to your partner and learn! Click here to continue reading & learn 7 ways that allow him to feel that you are in your feminine and following him.

Have you ever wondered why you feel like you're doing all the right things with a man but he doesn't respond the way you want him to? Have you had a man say the dreaded “it’s not you, it’s me. Right now just isn’t the right time for me to be in a relationship.” Have you dated a man and everything seemed good and felt it was moving along smoothly when he just stopped reaching out and claimed he was super busy? Or worse, men are approaching you, but it's all the wrong guys. They don't have their stuff together or are emotionally unavailable. This is very common among women who are used to operating in their masculine energy. This wonderful results-getting behavior helped you become the strong woman you now are. You got a bomb career, you’re organized, you’re a planner, are great in a crisis and girl, you’re a bomb mother to your babies. But this amazing hustle mode is oftentimes being brought over into your romantic relationship or when meeting new men and it’s the number one killer to love. This drive you have, the ability to get things done efficiently and quickly is beyond powerful at work and at home but actually makes you a failure with men. Allow me to explain why. Masculine energy is about action and getting results. It’s about taking results-oriented action. The masculine focuses on doing, solving, fixing, completing, analyzing, thinking, decision making, logistics, figuring out, planning, leading, execution and giving. Masculine energy seeks to take action to create a result. It’s transactional in nature. Men stay in their head because they are problem solvers by nature. They are logical thinkers and use this trait to get things done. They’re purpose is to be protectors, providers and committed procreators. They need respect, acceptance and challenges. Feminine energy is about feeling, sensing, expressing, receiving, allowing, flowing, intuiting and following. But when you’ve learned to operate in your masculine of “accomplishing” and “giving”, you unintentionally bring this energy to your man and literally repels him.

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