So, a big problem I had at first is believing women are attracted to me; I used to get baffled by the question: but why would she want me? It caused me to act unbelievably incongruent by trying not only way harder than I needed to, but trying period. All that noise in my head that I had so much of in the beginning slowly dissipated the more I realized that girls want me (want guys) too. It is not the logical part of it I had to work on to internalize, I really had to experience it before I could feel it, it hurt a lot in the beginning because most girls can be so conflicted -they might want me, but act incongruent themselves because they act passive as a default, EVEN THOUGH THEY WANT IT (it’s backwards, I know)-. Game really is just signaling girls, knowing to read their bodies, and holding space, that’s it. They take care of the rest (and get so horny once they’re having fun (feeling good), it’s fucking awesome!