8h ago in 💬 General discussion
The Right Compliments
As we all know, simps like to point out the obvious when talking to hot chicks - that they’re hot. Even as a guy, even I get irritated and cringe from guys who point out the fucking obvious. It’s redundant!
Anyone with half a brain hates redundancies anyone who has to fill the role of Captain Obvious! Women in particular know you’re only talking to her for more than a minute because she’s attractive!
The only kinda compliments she wants to hear are something that genuinely comes from the soul and about her character, not about her looks. When you do that, you’re - in a way - dehumanizing her, reducing her to just an image. It’s not a negative judgment, but it’s still a judgment nonetheless.
When you boil it all down, judgment is boxing someone into a category, positive or negative. And all it does is overly simplify (god knows I hate it), makes people look one-dimensional and uninteresting… like a simp or nice guy is…
Really boils down our internal realities affecting our external realities. If you’re one dimensional, you’re gonna do and say one dimensional shit (shit that’s not at all interesting or gonna have any measurable impact)…
Goddamn it’s 3:23 AM PST, and I’m still up and hustling… but it’s what I gotta do, and I get super reflective at night like the nocturnal animal I am…
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The Right Compliments
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