Goal: I want to have a confident body language and feel authentic with it.
Problem: Unfortunately, applying Kris' advice for body language feels inauthentic to me. I feel like i am creating a false persona and that overtime has reduced my confidence. Although i will say it works, i do feel people respecting me more, giving me more space. But, somewhere i cant stop feeling that i am a weirdo.
Solution: I am considering just forgetting about body language for a few months. I imagine that this way my old relaxed body language will return slightly and my new broad, rigid body language will tone down a little. I believe they will meet in the middle and form something authentic.
What do you think i should do?
Go back to old relaxed body language
Keep using Kris' method even if it feels weird
Let my body naturally find a midway over the nest 1-2 months