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68 contributions to Brojo: The Integrity Army
Why Nice Guys "Pick Their Battles" with Their Wives
Daily Dose of Integrity The “Pick Your Battles” narrative is interpreted by Nice Guys as don't fight any battles at all. They use this narrative to make it sound as if they're being kind of philosophical: “You know, some things aren't worth it. You got to choose the things that are important.” But, if you watch their behaviour, what you'll see is that they don't find anything that's important. They don't find anything to fight for and it's all just a glaze. It's all just a mask that they use to look noble when they're actually being cowards. The other main reason that this kind of men, afraid of their wives and their own behaviour, takes place is the foregone conclusion that being assertive will definitely create what they call “negativity”, negative emotions, bad results. This, of course, is by default not worth the effort. They think it's harmful to be assertive. They think it's just so not worth trying. Why would you throw money away on something that isn't valuable? Why would you assert yourself if it only harms the relationship? To dive deeper into this topic, check out the original video here: https://youtu.be/WvK9iH0G7tY
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Why Nice Guys "Pick Their Battles" with Their Wives
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One of the best relationship advice I've heard in a long time. It's something I'll revisit when I start a relationship that'll turn into a Marriage down the track. In the Past It's always the few Potential Partners I'm months into dating that are Toxic and have to cut loose who can't handle Myself being assertive and honest that begin attacking and re-framing everything I said to paint Me out to be a Villain despite the fact They've tolerated far more toxic behavior from Their ex's for years to become the Mess They are. I'm expecting conflict to be in every forms of the Relationship with My future Partner, but I'll be damn to lose Her all because I choose to be afraid to hurt Her feelings/ego with Honesty and Integrity and pick My Battles With Her, especially if She's either the Fiery Latina I always come across or those dear Special Persian Princesses They're raised to be, that are tough to argue, yet drive Me wild when They do haha, when I hold My ground and embrace conflict like Ancient Greece did to the Persians during the Trojan Wars they eventually won 2/3 of. It's like You said " If I stand up to Her, She will know I can stand up for Her" a rite of Passage that when passed with Flying Colours, may get a nice treat, go out on a date night to clear the Air and later may require a pack of Trojans for the next passionate clash haha
Classroom makeover!
My beautiful mrs @Lucie Munro has given our Classroom a new look with pictures for each of the courses. Check em out! https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/classroom This includes labels identifying which level each course is, allowing you to better choose what suits you right now
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Classroom makeover!
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Terrific makeover! thanks heaps @Lucie Munro
150 members! Prizes for all!!
Hey everyone, congrats to us for reaching this milestone that I arbitrarily decided is important. Yay numbers! As a reward for being one of the first 150, each of you can choose one of my books to have for free. Just comment below with the title of the book you want! List here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/dan-munros-books/
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150 members! Prizes for all!!
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Woohoo!! awesome news @Daniel Munro !! May I please have "The Legendary Life"? thank you in advance!!
How To Deal With A Defensive Person
Daily Dose of Integrity I saw a question the other day: “How to deal with a defensive person?” While most of you might think that calling out the defensiveness is helpful— it's not. Calling out a defensive person just pushes them even further into their defensiveness. The key is to do a technique that's called rolling with resistance, that is, acknowledging without agreeing. In other words, you respect what they're saying, how they’re feeling and how they are seeing the world, even if you don't agree with it or don’t think that it's truthful. There's no dishonesty here. You're just acknowledging that you understand what other person holds to be true. So, if somebody says something like: "I never said that." You won’t say "Yes, you did!" or "You're getting defensive". You may say instead something like: “Okay, so from your point of view, you've got no memory of saying that. Right?” You just acknowledge what they've said. Always acknowledge with respect what they say, without needing to agree with it. And then, you might start the actual conversation by pointing out the difference between their and your perception: “Okay, so from your point of view you never said that, and I've got a memory of you saying that. Somewhere in there is the truth. Let’s discuss it!”
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@Daniel Munro So true, sometimes when someone takes Me the wrong way, explained Myself and They still are defensive, I'd rather walk away and be at peace then say anymore as even the most savage comeback doesn't change the outcome or produce anything worth developing besides time wasted one can't get back.
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@Daniel Munro That's a subtle yet powerful way of responding, doesn't give Them a reason to lash out and in some cases even revoke My Online Membership of a Community page They so happen to be Moderators of. Thanks for the advice Man!!
Letting Go of Outcomes: Free 90min Confidence Building Webinar
Daily Dose of Integrity New podcast out today! Being attached to outcomes - results or reactions that are outside of your direct control - causes more suffering than just about anything else you'll ever encounter. Tragically, you're doing this without needing to! In this podcast, I explore the concept of having an emotional attachment (a hopeful expectation) to results that you prefer, and why this is both unnecessary and unhelpful when it comes to building self confidence. We'll explore how to live with integrity and pursue your goals without hoping that things will go "well" and being able to enjoy the process rather than depending on winning. Watch/listen here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/letting-go-of-outcomes-free-90min-confidence-building-webinar/
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