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Welcome everyone to the Brojo Integrity Army community! Thank you all so much for joining. Actions: 1) Please write a post introducing yourself - where you're from, what you're working on, and anything else you want people to know about you e.g. your most recommended self-development resources 2) Check out the other recent posts and offer support, encouragement, and advice (if asked) to join in the discussion 3) Go sign up to the Nice Guy Recovery course in the Classroom tab - it's open entry and free! 4) Join the 30 Day Social Confidence Boost Challenge! It’s free :) https://brojo.aweb.page/p/e9b073a7-2c8c-45c1-99df-8014fb7dcf49 5) Start liking and commenting on posts - this will gain you points and help you move up the ranks. As you move up, you'll unlock free courses and win prizes!! Some group rules to keep in mind: - No solicitation without my approval - do not offer your services or products as posts or private comments to other members - if someone does this, let me know immediately. This will result in a permanent ban. - Keep it respectful and try to help each other out. Disagreement is fine, abuse is not. - This page is exclusively about self-development, so discussions on unrelated topics (e.g. politics) will get deleted. - If anything in this group bothers you for whatever reason, please personally message me and I'll try to sort it out Thanks, and enjoy the community!! Dan Check out the 3min video below to learn how to use this platform
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Welcome! Please read this first!
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**FEATURED COURSE OF THE WEEK**
(Each week I'll feature a course with a 7-day discount!) -------------------- "Blasting Through Setbacks" - Just $5 for this week only! Things WILL Go Wrong... If you're not equipped to deal with things going wrong, you're going to struggle with a lot of life. Life doesn't care about your goals or plans. Life doesn't care about your hopes and expectations. And life certainly doesn't care about your opinion on how things "should" go. Your behaviour is under your control... everything else in life is not! In this course, we're going to dive into what happens when your carefully planned goals don't end up working out like you'd hoped. We're going to look at dealing with "derailers" (people/things that interfere), obstacles, setbacks, and failures - the real-life problems you'll face in your journey of growth. We'll talk about how to prevent things going wrong as much as humanly possible so that when they do go wrong you know you've done all you can. We will explore the philosophy and mindset you need to cultivate to ensure your reaction to things going wrong is healthy and helpful. We will draw up detailed step-by-step responses to derailers, obstacles, setbacks, and failures, to ensure you grow from these problems rather than fall. No battle plan survives contact with the enemy. So let's talk about how to manage the inevitable surprises life has in store for you... Get it this week only for just $5! https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/classroom/82f3ffc6?md=78d86eed4f6f47c9acd0fc2b73b7a400
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**FEATURED COURSE OF THE WEEK**
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Resources and Recommendations Thread
Hey everyone I'll pin this post as a thread we can use to recommend and request resources from each other. So comment below either with your recommended resources (e.g. books, videos, courses you found helpful - from anyone) or ask for recommendations to help solve your issues.
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What hobbies do you guys have?
I’ve pretty much had the same hobby for 25 years. But given a big tangled mess of issues (the same ones that bring me to Brojo) it’s become more stressful and depressing than entertaining. So I’m on the hunt for alternatives. For reference, I’ve been dancing one or more of salsa/bachata/kizomba/zouk since 1999. It’s pretty challenging finding something that fills the gaps in fitness, social intros, nights at the bar, IRL tinder, and regular travel destinations for big events. Plus of course finding something I find interesting. So, let’s have a discussion about what you guys get yourselves up to. PS, I’ve done a few PT boxing sessions at the gym, which has got me to look at the nearby boxing gyms and Krav Maga options. I plan to check out a few trial classes.
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Empathy
Interesting conversations with my kids. With my son yesterday ‘How are you feeling mate with the pain - sorry I don’t ask you that. ’…. You don’t have to ask me that Dad - Mum does it all the bloody time. ‘This must frustrate you. The whole thing with being at home must be frustrating - I bet you miss all your mates. How that makes you feel must be worse than being in pain,? Not much of a reaction from him at the time, but he opened up later in the day and included me in some Lego time, which he hadn’t done for weeks. Can’t expect too much from him with respect to sharing how he feels - considering his role model up to now. @Daniel Munro Cheers Dan was great to feel some connection with him. Conversation still felt controlled, but it’s a start. And with my Daughter today on the drive to school apologising to her for being stuck in my head with thoughts and not feeling well when I picked her up yesterday. ‘That’s ok Dad we all get like that and feel like shit and don’t always know why - I feel like that a lot and don’t say anything - you are just the same as everyone, but it still sucks. I know it had nothing to do with me’… At 17 she can express Empathy better than me at 51. Hope she doesn’t feel she needs to try and manage my feelings though. Probably need to give credit where credits due for how she has turned out - to my Wife. It’s an interesting concept to me interacting with others from their perspective, rather than from my own self-centredness. Allows the space in response to choose not to follow the automatic victim pattern but to accept what’s in front of me. At least that’s the overanalysed theory in my Nice Guy mind. Now to turn that back on myself and show empathy for my behaviour in the Now, rather than judge myself on a past or future imaginary story which only exists in my mind.
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