“I don’t even know who I am anymore.” 😥 This is a common thought that women over 45 have when they’ve become empty nesters and begin to enter their Legacy Era. If you’re like me, you spent decades taking care of children. My identity became “Mom”. 🙍🏼‍♀️ Everything I did was scheduled around the children’s schedules, wants, and needs. At one point, I had to quit my main job because my daughter was regularly sick. I then worked 3 part-time jobs to bring in enough money to keep us afloat. I delivered newspapers before my (ex)-husband went to work. I did data entry at home. And I babysat a friend’s child. That was in addition to taking care of my 3 kids. Eventually, I returned to working full-time. And then I married my current husband who has 2 kids. So we had 5 kids who were only 6 years apart! 🫨 Life was chaotic. I had little time for me. And as time passed, I gave up all of my hobbies. I didn’t even read books anymore. 😥 My identity was totally wrapped up in my kids and my work. And eventually I started my own business. Now I also was taking care of clients and THEIR needs. It felt like I was ALWAYS working. Chanin and her desires and needs disappeared overall. And if I DID do anything that was just for me (like taking an online college course), I felt guilty. My life was about kids, my husband, and my business (making money.) I’ll continue the story tomorrow. I’d love to hear if any of you resonate with this scenario! ⬇️ And if you're ready to finally put YOUR needs first after decades of serving others, DM me about The DIVA Path - a 90-day hybrid program designed specifically for women like you — moms who have given so much to their families and are now ready to honor their own dreams. Through transformative energy work and aligned guidance, you’ll remember who the f* you are, gain the clarity to balance your family with your purpose, and start creating a legacy that reflects who YOU are. The doors are open. Will you have the courage to cross the threshold and walk through to your new life?

𝗩𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗡𝗲𝘄 𝗖𝘂𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗰𝘆 Visibility matters. Here on Skool, visibility doesn’t come from ads or algorithms; it comes from us. Every comment and post boosts your presence, keeping you in sight of the community. This is the “human algorithm” – where we keep each other visible by engaging. When people see you frequently, they remember you, connect with you, and trust grows naturally. We’re here to make sure every leader in this network has the chance to be seen. It’s time we all show up for each other and watch visibility become our currency. Who will you make visible today? Tag someone in the comments who has inspired you recently, and let’s celebrate each other’s presence!

I know you’ve been showing up consistently, posting in your Skool group, and doing all the things you’re "supposed" to do. But let’s be real. It can feel like you’re climbing a steep hill when you’re not getting the engagement or sales you hoped for. I totally get how that can be exhausting, especially when you’re putting in so much effort! Many of us are stuck in this cycle, wondering why our hard work isn’t paying off. The trick often lies in simplifying what we’re doing and sharpening our focus. When your group feels like you understand their challenges, they connect with YOU personally. It's a connection beyond the content you’re sharing. 💡 So, instead of filling your classroom with endless content, what if you hosted a monthly live event? This could be a focused space where your audience can experience your expertise firsthand. It’s all about building that trust and connection that can lead to those higher-ticket sales. This shift could turn your group from just a place for passive content into a vibrant community that’s excited to see what you’ll do next. Live events can provide a more personal touch, foster a sense of community, and significantly boost engagement and sales. Want to know HOW? Join my free masterclass, Turn Your Skool Group into a High Ticket Sales Machine. Send me a DM or check out this post for the details. So, what do you think? How would it feel to move away from daily posting and lean into something more intentional, like live events? ⬇️

Should you… a) double down on content, hoping it finally pays off, or b) stop posting altogether and risk losing engagement? It’s a tough call when it feels like your group isn’t bringing in the results you want! When you’re running a community or considering starting one, it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking it’s a choice between “all or nothing.” The REAL dilemma is how to make your group profitable without feeling trapped by constant upkeep. For high-ticket clients, it’s more about meaningful experiences than constant interaction. Imagine hosting just one high-impact monthly event in your Skool group. This way, you provide real value, attract genuine interest, and build connections that naturally convert into sales. Rather than stressing over daily engagement, you can make each month a powerful opportunity for conversion. What’s your experience with this "all or nothing" dilemma? Have you thought about focusing on fewer high-impact moments instead?

Hello, my friend! 💖 Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “If I say no, they’ll be disappointed with me”? 😔 Or, “I don’t want to come across as selfish”? These are just a couple of the thoughts that can loop in the mind of a “good girl” or a people-pleaser — thoughts that keep us playing small and putting others before ourselves again and again. 🙄 When we’re stuck in the “Good Girl Trap,” we tend to prioritize others’ needs over our own, stay quiet when we should speak up, and hold back from fully shining. We don’t want to “rock the boat” or risk being seen as too much, difficult, or selfish. But at what cost? Here are some other thoughts that might sound familiar: 😩 "I need to prove that I’m helpful and reliable.” 😩 “It’s easier to just agree and avoid conflict.” 😩 "If I don’t do this, they might not like me or want me around.” 😩 “What if they think I’m difficult or demanding?” 😩 “Maybe if I keep helping, they’ll finally appreciate me.” These thoughts are common for people-pleasers, but they can lead us into burnout, resentment, and a sense of being invisible. 😩 And sometimes we're not even aware these beliefs are running in the background, dictating how we behave with others. The “Good Girl Trap” is about staying in a box that keeps us “nice” but unfulfilled. Breaking free from this isn’t about rejecting kindness or compassion — it’s about reclaiming YOUR voice, desires, and power without apology or guilt. Please join us for Break Free from the Good Girl Trap, where we’ll explore how to shift from self-sacrifice to self-empowerment. You’ll learn how to recognize and rewire these limiting beliefs, allowing you to step out with boldness, integrity, and self-assurance. I’ll also share my Quantum Shift Method to help you begin to unravel this outdated BS. It’s time to say goodbye to the “good girl” and hello to the fierce, authentic woman you’re meant to be. 👑 Event Details Date: Thursday, 11/7/2024 Time: 7pm CDT Location: Zoom Replay Available: Yes, but live attendance will be more fun and interactive!