Have you ever wondered why you feel like you're doing all the right things with a man but he doesn't respond the way you want him to? Have you had a man say the dreaded “it’s not you, it’s me. Right now just isn’t the right time for me to be in a relationship.” Have you dated a man and everything seemed good and felt it was moving along smoothly when he just stopped reaching out and claimed he was super busy? Or worse, men are approaching you, but it's all the wrong guys. They don't have their stuff together or are emotionally unavailable. This is very common among women who are used to operating in their masculine energy. This wonderful results-getting behavior helped you become the strong woman you now are. You got a bomb career, you’re organized, you’re a planner, are great in a crisis and girl, you’re a bomb mother to your babies. But this amazing hustle mode is oftentimes being brought over into your romantic relationship or when meeting new men and it’s the number one killer to love. This drive you have, the ability to get things done efficiently and quickly is beyond powerful at work and at home but actually makes you a failure with men. Allow me to explain why. Masculine energy is about action and getting results. It’s about taking results-oriented action. The masculine focuses on doing, solving, fixing, completing, analyzing, thinking, decision making, logistics, figuring out, planning, leading, execution and giving. Masculine energy seeks to take action to create a result. It’s transactional in nature. Men stay in their head because they are problem solvers by nature. They are logical thinkers and use this trait to get things done. They’re purpose is to be protectors, providers and committed procreators. They need respect, acceptance and challenges. Feminine energy is about feeling, sensing, expressing, receiving, allowing, flowing, intuiting and following. But when you’ve learned to operate in your masculine of “accomplishing” and “giving”, you unintentionally bring this energy to your man and literally repels him.

I'm doing a beta run of my new "Bloom In A Day" event. This is the first ever live version of my signature coaching program, Bloom, where you will leave transformed and know your worth, raise your standards and confidently create the feminine life you deserve. One with time, money and relationship freedom. In one day, you will: - Identify, understand and permanently undo those unhealthy masculine patterns that have kept you overworked, overwhelmed & under-loved - Know your worth and NEVER forget it. - Raise your standards and never drop them or give discounts ever again - Be crystal clear on your true purpose and your life's vision to the point where you never have to question what you have to do each minute of each day. Yessss. - Learn the Feminine Expression Model - the one-of-a-kind feminine communication tool that inspires men to fully step into their masculine and will reveal if you're with a "feminine boy" that isn't capable. Use this tool with everyone (including yourself) to always understand exactly what you need, how to express it in any area of your life & receive it immediately. I would love to invite a few of you into my personal home so I can take you through the new Bloom program. It will be on Saturday, February 17th from 9 am to 5 pm (or earlier if we get done sooner) My home is in Rancho Cucamonga, California. Afterwards we can relax at my home, have wine, cocktails, and dinner. I’m providing coffee, water, soft drinks, snacks and lunch. Max I can fit is 12 women and I have 6 women already committed. The spots filled up so fast! Please comment below if you’re interested. And I'll DM you all the details.

Below is the list below and get the list of feminine traits and get clear on the top feminine trait you are committed to master. - Imperfect movement, messy, but courageous (vision-based decisions) - Willing servant leader. Hero, she knows she gains by giving - Speaks her mind, expresses her needs - Collaborative, wants others to win, celebrates others. Separates herself. - Expresses her emotions physically and verbally - Independent on her own, interdependent with others and dependent on God - Relies on others. Asks for support. - Vulnerable, honest, shares - Takes on only what is her responsibility - Leaves others alone to do things their own way - Gives others freedom to be themselves lets go, releases - Wait to share your body until you’re fully committed - Underwork. Work smart, not hard. sks for & receives help from others, she knows when to rest. Focused work. Delegates, automates. - Serve what you can. She serves the world with her gifts - Secure in who she is, where she's from, why she's here, where she's going - Positive self-talk. Compassionate and curious. Self leadership. - Take courageous movement & always make vision based decisions. - Over-thinking (gets out of her head & uses her emotions & intuition to help her make VBD) - Keeps her high standards because she knows her worth. - Self belief/confidence - Self-control - Self trust and optimistic in others, qualifies others - Independent & interdependent & dependent on God - Accepts people for who they are & sets boundaries accordingly - Allows others to be broken or in pain, holds space - Actions align with her values, she stays committed to her vision, actions support or create her vision. - God and self focused, serves others, not just man - Keeps your schedule, commitments to yourself/vision - Patient and trust Gods timing, allows things to unfold - Knows who she is & who’s she is not, she loves & accepts herself, she knows she was perfectly & wonderfully made, she knows she has a unique purpose - Have a full fun life you love and invest in NOW - Gets clear by connecting to herself (L.O.V.E. framework) - Courageously makes a vision-based decision and gets data