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9 contributions to Apex Inner Game
11d ago in
Texting
What I never see video content from anybody on is the initial text game. I know Corey Wayne says you have to get the ball rolling and then expect the woman to do most of the pursuing. My conundrum is when I match online get a phone number and they are reluctant to reach out. Many of them will flake anyway so I feel like you have to create a bridge until you can actually meet. The bridge meaning daily text may be a picture, something to keep them engaged. Am I wrong on this? And should I sit back and make the woman either text First occasionally or forget about the thread? Again, I’m talking mainly about the few days or week between linking up phone numbers and actually meeting.
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New comment 5d ago
0 likes • 10d
I’ve had a scenario like on Monday. You said a coffee date for that Friday and if you did not communicate with her at least once a day prior, she didn’t develop the comfort necessary and then I would be told she didn’t feel like I had interest or that I had ghosted her. So I have been trying to steadily feed low level attention until we can at least meet the first time. Not over texting but something each day.
0 likes • 10d
@John Rogalsky thanks for the feedback. Curious as to Paul's feedback as well.
Sep 18 in
Text Game: photos
What are your thoughts on sending good pics of yourself to female interests? Creating a bridge until she sees you again OR validation seeking behavior?
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New comment Sep 22
0 likes • Sep 19
I am a bit older. I don't generate IG leads, though my 22 year old son does. I like sending pics to women I am either already seeing or about to see. I think it creates a nice interest bridge in between dates.
Sep 11 in
Deering.
Just want to make sure I understand this concept correctly.. Deering just means explaining yourself to a woman and as a result putting her in the decision making position or leadership position. I think that's the meaning but I wanted to be clear. As opposed to Luca and statments of fact?
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New comment Sep 12
1 like • Sep 11
@Austin Wright yeah, not sure who gets credit for coining the term. I can tell you firsthand though that the material I am referencing is quality. The Red Pill University episodes are all from 2020. They are very informative.
0 likes • Sep 12
@Austin Wright yeah, and I like to watch RG on interviews, etc., though I'm not sure he subscribes to all the RP content. He said once that he was at odds with the Red Pill, but at that time, he wasn't well versed in what RP content actually was.
Sep 5 in
Text Tennis
We all know that texting a female, pre-relationship, is like tennis. And Paul has spoken about open and closed loops. My understanding is that PRE-first date, the man reaches out, sets the date and confirms. This is all masculine leadership. HOWEVER, once date one occurs, if there is mutual interest, now, as Corey Wayne says, the man should only do 20-30% of the pursuing. I don't stratify the percentages, but I certainly prioritize women who show extra effort, when spinning plates. However, I have come across a couple anomalies. A couple girls who are SO TRADITIONAL, they will NOT text first. If I don't reach out, I'll never talk to them again. But, when I do reach out, they are still interested. They simply will NOT text first. I was not aware there was a level of "SO TRADITIONAL" that would cause a woman to NEVER TEXT first. I take it as a sign of low interest. But maybe I'm wrong.
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New comment Sep 10
1 like • Sep 6
Lack of interest OR really traditional and physically repressed. I’ve seen girls with lots of dating interest and just flat with escalation of pretty much any kind. That’s when I abort.
0 likes • Sep 10
What Jimmy said “If she's only responsive when you reach out, it might be a case of old-school values or just not as invested.” If they NEVER initiate text, after meeting at least once, I don’t know whether to soft next or give benefit of the doubt. It’s not a masculine look to appear to be chasing. These are girls who have only met for coffee or dinner. So no way to determine GBD.
Sep 5 in
Masculine Canceling
I’m looking for the best way to cancel a date the day before, without sounding flaky or using DEER.
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New comment Sep 6
0 likes • Sep 5
Ok, this is an evening date. So I can't say a meeting came up. At the core of the simplest form, I can just say "I can't make it tomorrow, but I'd love to reschedule". Sounds pretty pedestrian, but I can use it if that's the advice.
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