If there was only one piece of guidance I could give you for your relationship, this would be it: Your presence is the biggest flex. And the biggest key to presence is feeling grounded, safe, and trusting of yourself. When you're operating in a prison of your edges, you have no range, and therefore no presence and no staying power. There are no bigger edges than feeling like you’re not enough or like you don’t trust yourself. When these stories are present in your body, they take up most, if not all of your bandwidth. If it’s not immediately present for you or activated, it’s running in the background. As a man who desires presence from himself, it’s vital that you create space in your body and your nervous system, expanding your range, expanding your capacity to hold, therefore anchoring into your staying power. Presence is what allows you to hold the space for the feminine energy in your life. The best way to create space in your body and to cultivate grounded, embodied presence is through your breath. The depth of your breath is what dictates your capacity; it’s a direct line between your balls and your heart. That's a little bit about why this community exists. Please let us know where you're from and what you hope to gain from being a part of this community and respond to the pol below.