People are wired to help, to say yes, to comply.

At the face of a "gym chad", some angry looking guy in the gym, you're mind makes up all types of thoughts on how the guy is like, and what he thinks of you. OR MAYBE he's even shown some "signs" that he don't like you or think less of you.

Try this...

Ask him to help you lift back up the weight on your squat rack.

He'll happily do it.

And in fact after doing it, he may actually change his mind alil on how feels about you.

This is called the Benjamin (nice name) Franklin effect I believe.

On how you ask someone to do something for you, they do it, they like you more.

AS OPPOSED to the way you'd think to get someone to like you, which is doing something for them.

Not sure about the psychology behind it, but I think it's something along the lines of,

they just did something for a person, now they HAVE TO show that they like you or else it doesn't match?

Try it out won't you?

All the best,

Benji

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