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Individuation

At the heart of human experience is this incredible gift—and sometimes burden—of being able to think about ourselves and the world around us.

Thinking isn't just a brain function; it’s the scaffolding of how we create and understand our reality.

We take in information, we make sense of it, and then we form beliefs about what’s “real.”

This process happens not just in our conscious mind, where we know what we're thinking, but also deeply in our unconscious mind, where ideas and patterns shape us without us even realizing it.

Carl Jung, one of the great minds in psychology, pointed out that for us to live meaningful lives, we need to combine the conscious and unconscious parts of ourselves. He called this individuation.

It’s a bit like a journey to uncover hidden parts of ourselves, a search to find where our mind, heart, and soul meet and start to dance together.

By the way, individuation isn’t a quick process. And it can shake us to our core because we’re facing parts of ourselves that we may have ignored or hidden away.

Jung believed that when we integrate our conscious awareness with those shadowy, unconscious parts of ourselves, we start to realize who we truly are—not who we think we should be or who others expect us to be, but our authentic selves.

It’s where we feel more “whole.”

What I love about Jung’s idea is that it doesn’t suggest that we have to be “perfect” or fully understand everything about ourselves to live with purpose.

It just invites us to look at the fuller picture, to embrace the contradictions, fears, and questions we all carry.

This process of self-discovery, of learning to bridge our conscious thoughts with our unconscious patterns, teaches us compassion and the courage to live from our true, resilient selves.

It’s where the roots of real connection with ourselves and others are found.

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