♦️Let’s talk about S€X · Skool Group Leaders Network

Eva Ayla

3d ago (edited) in Personal Development

♦️Let’s talk about S€X

A family man.♦️

A religious man.

An accomplished man.

A passionate man.

A prestigious man.

A man with a reputation.

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U knew him first from what others said about him.

And what they said changed from circle to circle. ♦️

But every circle spoke of him as a hero.

He did his best to never let the circles collide.

5 kids from two marriages.

The first was short.

The second longer.

20 something years with her.

His life was like a feel good old time western.♦️ Complete with the cattle ranch, firearms, and cowboy hat. The land HIS by birthright. His last name was written in history books. His bloodline some of the first settlers.

A family that held local political offices and had streets named after them.

♦️Everything a MAN’s man could want.♦️

Then she found out.

To be honest she should have known.

♦️It had been sexless for years.♦️

Not that it mattered he was still knocking her up w/ babies when he met his mistress. 17 years of the 20 something he kept her on the side.

U see. Sex was his passion.♦️The rest of his life was a hobby.

Annnnnnd he married the wrong woman. But that religious shit made him stay when he knew he needed out.

He wasn’t promiscuous. He didn’t womanize it was just the one.

♦️He NEEDED sex to be CENTRAL to his relationship.♦️

The core feature that the rest of the marriage emanated from.

But she… well she was religious and missionary regular enough was her way.

He♦️needed passion. Romance. Fun. Exploration. Real intimacy. Real ecstasy. Real desire. And super willing participation.

The headaches. The kids on her nerves. The church charity. And the fact she was a teacher. None of that ended up in lingerie. Sexy quickies. Flirting, foreplay or even head.

And entire marriage ZERO blow jobs.

Sex is important.♦️ Very.

And sexual compatibility is underrated. ♦️♦️

The disconnect is a slow burn to hell.

When she found out that’s where she wanted him in hell.

A scorned woman. A SCORCHED man.

But it was his fault. To be honest. And he was. He took full responsibility and never denied he was wrong. He knew early on the sex didn’t click. ♦️♦️

But he played the hero good guy. Stayed married.

Till temptation and a woman willing to play second fiddle came by.

Was it worth it? I asked.

“No. It wasn’t.

My mistress doesn’t suck di*k either.” Straight faced he said it, that cowboy hat on his knee, he was sitting on the front porch rail.

We sat staring at a mansion up the hill. He built it. But she kicked him out. And until the divorce was settled he had to stay in the tiny original farm house.

She also took his new truck.

He drove an old one now, that had been at the ranch forever.

We sighed.

“Back to business”… in his words “how the hell would he fix this shit so he could meet a woman he loved that loved sex enough to give head?”

♦️Sometimes… the perfect life isn’t what we really wanted.♦️

And remember sex is important.

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There ARE many options for fulfilling sex. But NOT if ur NOT honest.

Not if u won’t speak up.

And not if ur stuck in religion and reputation.

Sex is important and personal. But we don’t talk about it before it’s gone bad typically.

And damn… most men won’t tell a woman what they really want in case she won’t give him access to her at all.

The conversations need to be had.

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I love talking about sex.

And how to get it in the ways u prefer.

And I know how to teach u to start conversations with women about it.

As well as practice makes perfect.

So lets chat about the sex u want.

So u can talk about it to the woman u love.

And let her know real clear…

for god sakes U don’t want to go 20 something years without a blowie.

DM me, for solutions to the sex u actually want. U can learn how to talk about it openly without shame and with passion. And with the woman u love.

Make her mouth water.♦️

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