Balls intact, spine intact. Provision intact. Protection intact. INTEGRITY INTACT. Real MEN. Legit masculine energy. Respect. Honor. And the utmost gratitude to u. ❤️ Eva Ayla https://www.instagram.com/evaayla.evaayla/profilecard/?igsh=MThvMWs5MHB0a2c0bg==

A family man.♦️ A religious man. An accomplished man. A passionate man. A prestigious man. A man with a reputation. ♦️ U knew him first from what others said about him. And what they said changed from circle to circle. ♦️ But every circle spoke of him as a hero. He did his best to never let the circles collide. 5 kids from two marriages. The first was short. The second longer. 20 something years with her. His life was like a feel good old time western.♦️ Complete with the cattle ranch, firearms, and cowboy hat. The land HIS by birthright. His last name was written in history books. His bloodline some of the first settlers. A family that held local political offices and had streets named after them. ♦️Everything a MAN’s man could want.♦️ Then she found out. To be honest she should have known. ♦️It had been sexless for years.♦️ Not that it mattered he was still knocking her up w/ babies when he met his mistress. 17 years of the 20 something he kept her on the side. U see. Sex was his passion.♦️The rest of his life was a hobby. Annnnnnd he married the wrong woman. But that religious shit made him stay when he knew he needed out. He wasn’t promiscuous. He didn’t womanize it was just the one. ♦️He NEEDED sex to be CENTRAL to his relationship.♦️ The core feature that the rest of the marriage emanated from. But she… well she was religious and missionary regular enough was her way. He♦️needed passion. Romance. Fun. Exploration. Real intimacy. Real ecstasy. Real desire. And super willing participation. The headaches. The kids on her nerves. The church charity. And the fact she was a teacher. None of that ended up in lingerie. Sexy quickies. Flirting, foreplay or even head. And entire marriage ZERO blow jobs. Sex is important.♦️ Very. And sexual compatibility is underrated. ♦️♦️ The disconnect is a slow burn to hell. When she found out that’s where she wanted him in hell. A scorned woman. A SCORCHED man. But it was his fault. To be honest. And he was. He took full responsibility and never denied he was wrong. He knew early on the sex didn’t click. ♦️♦️

An excerpt from an email thread today with a golden child that has become a Man with an identity crisis. He asked me how to reconcile his “squareness with his creative side”… ♦️Anyone can be a creative. A creative can very much be a square. Or even a 99%. Mavericks are not always creatives. But often they can be. Dynasties are sometimes creative and sometimes not. Creativity comes in many forms. So it is not in conflict with anything. ♦️ U enjoy nature and many freedoms. But that is different from a more defined free spirit. But even free spirit can be a square at times. Or vise versa. ♦️Maverick is about the way one conceptualizes and takes action. It’s about a frequency. Same with Dynasties.♦️ 99% also.♦️ Mavericks tend to function best within a loose or less rigid system. They also tend to upend a system or bring change in a more explosive and breaking down or apart or ending the system kind of way. Mavericks also create their own system that works for them but not always for the majority. The function of the system is less important to the Maverick. The flow and the ability to flex and adjust in every now without necessarily reaching desired outcome is key to a Maverick. Maneuverability is very necessary to them. ♦️ A Dynasty cares greatly about the function and purpose of the system. About its effectiveness and efficiency. It’s longevity maintenance and productivity. It understands respects and reaches desired outcome successfully more often than not. It does not budge easily when it’s in place and sees it’s importance to reaching desired outcome. Which is why Dynasty can become very wealthy and last for generations. 99% are necessary♦️ to both Mavericks and Dynasties. We need them for us to have something to govern/lead/revolutionize/change/create outcomes. They are happy to comply. Tend to gravitate to easy and escapism. They love being part of a group and being seen as similar to everyone else in the group. Think football, little league, trending culture, fashion, cars, food… sameness. If I’m like everyone else I’m doing well. And if I can check out and have fun I’m good. And average is good enough for me. They don’t want to sacrifice nor do the extra things required of Mavericks and Dynasties. Leave well enough alone. If it’s not broke don’t fix it. Give me a beer and burger with fries while I bet on the game. Mentality.

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There was a time in my life when I stepped away from everything, a time when the world was quiet, and the only sound I could hear was the rhythm of my own breath. For five years, I lived as a hermit monk on the island of Maui, far from the hustle and grind of the business world. My days were simple: meditation, reflection, and an unwavering commitment to consistency. In the bamboo forests where time seemed to stand still, I discovered something profound. It wasn’t the grand gestures or the monumental efforts that brought clarity and growth, it was the small, consistent actions taken day after day. Every morning, I would rise with the sun, sit in silence, and simply breathe. At first, it seemed like nothing was happening... ...but over time, the cumulative effect of those daily practices became undeniable. My mind became sharper, my purpose clearer, and my spirit stronger. This was the secret I uncovered: consistency in action is what transforms your life. The same principle applies to achieving $20K months. Success isn’t about sudden breakthroughs; it’s about showing up every day, putting in the work, and trusting that these small, consistent actions will compound over time. But here’s the challenge, consistency isn’t glamorous. It’s not the shiny, exciting part of the journey. It can feel tedious, even mundane. And this is where many people falter, expecting quick results and losing faith when they don’t come. If you want to reach those $20K months, you must embrace the discipline of consistency. Show up every day, do the work, and trust the process. This is a principle we emphasize in our Skool community because we know that it’s the key to real, sustainable success. Are you enjoying this series? If you'd like me to extend it and share more lessons from Maui and Bali, leave a comment "MORE," below…I’d love to hear from you.