Define Your Priorities · Girls Institute

Molly T

Jun 3 in General discussion

Define Your Priorities

Lately i’ve been thinking a lot about a lot of things.

I know some things I should be doing, but yet…

I don’t.

And we’re all like this.

I know I should put my head down and work 3-4 hours a day on my personal projects.

I know I should read and get better at everything.

I know I need to prioritize my Skool.

I know I need to practice my religion more properly.

So I decided to write it down. In order.

1) God.

2)My career/money

3)My looks

4)My relationships

Let me explain.

As a muslim, my number one priority always has to be God. So that one was pretty easy to name, because it’s non-negotiable for me.

As for why I place money and looks above my relationships, my way of seeing it is that I understand the essence of short-term sacrifice for long term gain.

I know my family would benefit more from me taking some alone time and coming back to solve 99% of their problems instead of talking to them uselessly every single day.

I know the quality of my life, my confidence, mental health and my earning potential goes up drastically if I just look prettier. Sadly enough.

I know that I can get a better spouse, get better treatment from my family and friends if I look prettier, have more money and put God first.

That’s why I place relationships fourth.

I place the other things before relationships. I know that by being “better”, I will be better placed to help others.

Just some thoughts 💕

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