I am currently in the process of watching every single Body Language video of 1st Man and what I soon realised is that not being reactive is one of the key lessons to body language. My problem is that i am very reactive but in a positive way for example when something falls down i am able to catch it instinctively. Also I think it's always good to be a little paranoid (like the book "only the paranoids survive"). Now I also want to have dominant body language but i don't think i could let an enemy or any potential danger near me like it's shown in this video from Kris (https://youtu.be/a8qkGcTjjjQ?si=zuSPZGnWrJf8rHpU). Any Advice on how to balance the two correctly.