Getting Looks From Women Means Nothing

Little half-blog for you guys.

In this modern era of social snippets you’ve likely seen guys being “secretly filmed” as they walk down the road and have women look at them.

This whole narrative is such a waste of time. Women worth anything aren’t basing their attraction off looks. They’re basing it off masculinity, character, ability to provide.

“So why are these women looking at the men”?

Because people like to look at attractive people!

The amount of women I’ve dated who genuinely couldn’t care about looks, usually the hottest women too. They’ll all say the same thing, I look at a handsome guy and think he’s handsome, then I move on with my day and forget about him.

How sad is this when you really think about it. You have all of these guys perceiving a look from a woman as some sort of accomplishment, when in reality she’s forgotten about him and will openly admit she looked more out of curiosity/or as part of an intrigue for beauty.

Sorry to break it to you, but all women do the same to women. It’s nothing special. I’ve seen women check women out and then say I have a girl crush I love her outfit. Men are out here overthinking and overhyping “someone looking at them”.

Nothing was accomplished, she’s simply looked, walked past and disappeared. Did you sleep with her, did she become your GF or Wife? If no then nothing matters. This “how many girls can look at me” game and collecting phone numbers is the biggest waste of time and feminine.

The important part for men is being a man, having a life pre-built that women want to be a part of and displaying that value. This gets actual results. There’s a big difference between

He’s handsome and I want to sleep with him

Men are operating like women in this era. They’re getting called beautiful and calling it a good day. Men are action based, you want results. Drop the vanity metrics and focus on the game after the game, 200 looks, 100 “he’s hot” and 20 numbers still means nothing until you know what to do and how to build genuine attraction. Being attractive is about 5% of the game from my experience

18 comments