... and life avoidant, looking for employment. How does that headline grab the next employer out there. I'm currently unemployed and coming off ACC(nz government health insurance) in two months, with no desire to go back to anything where I'm resenting life and just out right disrespecting myself. I'm wondering if I could ever grow into anything like this latest vacancy that I came across. Wishing once again that I had these attributes. And wondering how much growth it would take and where I would even start. Better yet. What's the next right step for me today. Do I even want to do one of these jobs or am I just intrigued by the man that I'd need to be to do it. Knowing that I'm not today, at this moment. And that that is exactly what it missing and yearning inside of me. Or maybe it's just that I'm always feeling inadequate to the world, when the world probably doesn't even care. And I just need to be enough for myself, so ultimately I just don't think I'm enough or feel enough, or ever have. So maybe I just need to figure out how to do some of these things or grow along some of these lines to prove to myself that I can, and remove doubt. Don't know unless I try I guess.

My new course is finally available, and with an $80 discount for this week only! Tap Into the Dark Power of Psychopathy in A Healthy Way to Achieve Unbreakable Self Confidence and Remove All Self Doubt Most people hear the word "psychopath" and think of criminals who cause lots of harm. But this is only because the media and the psychology institutes have only every studied disordered psychopaths. What about the successful ones?! There are millions of people around the world who score highly in psychopathic traits, and yet they've never been to prison and rarely harm others. And they are super successful. They are top surgeons, military leaders, powerful politicians, CEOs, lawyers, business leaders, and even gurus improving the lives of their millions of followers. They share traits that most people can only dream of having: - No self doubt - always backing yourself to do what you think is right - Clear decisive thinking - able to calculate risks without emotion and make the best moves - Social charm and charisma - leading to success in friendships, relationships and career networks - Cool under pressure - putting them in valuable positions with tonnes of responsibility - Necessary ruthlessness - no one can ever manipulate or hurt them or their loved ones - Not caring what others think of them - able to make decisions free of shame and people pleasing urges Doesn't that sound good to you?? In this course, I will tap into my extensive experience working with psychopathic personalities - the most naturally confident people in the world - to extract the wisdom and personality traits they have in common that makes them so successful and so much better able to enjoy their lives than others. I will show you how to adopt traits like bravery, decisiveness, risk-taking, ruthlessness and charm, without becoming more harmful, selfish or narcissistic. I myself score highly in psychopathic traits (i.e. I'm neurodivergent), and once I learned to exploit these strengths instead of hiding them behind people-pleasing, I was able to launch a successful business, create a relationship and family with the woman of my dreams, and completely cure myself of worrying what others think of me.

I’ve pretty much had the same hobby for 25 years. But given a big tangled mess of issues (the same ones that bring me to Brojo) it’s become more stressful and depressing than entertaining. So I’m on the hunt for alternatives. For reference, I’ve been dancing one or more of salsa/bachata/kizomba/zouk since 1999. It’s pretty challenging finding something that fills the gaps in fitness, social intros, nights at the bar, IRL tinder, and regular travel destinations for big events. Plus of course finding something I find interesting. So, let’s have a discussion about what you guys get yourselves up to. PS, I’ve done a few PT boxing sessions at the gym, which has got me to look at the nearby boxing gyms and Krav Maga options. I plan to check out a few trial classes.

Interesting conversations with my kids. With my son yesterday ‘How are you feeling mate with the pain - sorry I don’t ask you that. ’…. You don’t have to ask me that Dad - Mum does it all the bloody time. ‘This must frustrate you. The whole thing with being at home must be frustrating - I bet you miss all your mates. How that makes you feel must be worse than being in pain,? Not much of a reaction from him at the time, but he opened up later in the day and included me in some Lego time, which he hadn’t done for weeks. Can’t expect too much from him with respect to sharing how he feels - considering his role model up to now. @Daniel Munro Cheers Dan was great to feel some connection with him. Conversation still felt controlled, but it’s a start. And with my Daughter today on the drive to school apologising to her for being stuck in my head with thoughts and not feeling well when I picked her up yesterday. ‘That’s ok Dad we all get like that and feel like shit and don’t always know why - I feel like that a lot and don’t say anything - you are just the same as everyone, but it still sucks. I know it had nothing to do with me’… At 17 she can express Empathy better than me at 51. Hope she doesn’t feel she needs to try and manage my feelings though. Probably need to give credit where credits due for how she has turned out - to my Wife. It’s an interesting concept to me interacting with others from their perspective, rather than from my own self-centredness. Allows the space in response to choose not to follow the automatic victim pattern but to accept what’s in front of me. At least that’s the overanalysed theory in my Nice Guy mind. Now to turn that back on myself and show empathy for my behaviour in the Now, rather than judge myself on a past or future imaginary story which only exists in my mind.

Hey guys, the video, audio and chat box recordings are now available in the Dropbox folder for yesterday's session. Password has been emailed to you. Big thanks to @Donelle McKinley for allowing us to explore the apparent conflict between Integrity and Relationships - particularly the sense that you must trade off your freedom to have someone else in your life. Extra resources that back up our discussion: - The Building Rapport course is the most relevant to today's discussion. - Feeling trapped? - https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/feeling-trapped-more-freedom/ - Push them away with honesty - https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/seduction-technique-honesty/ NEXT CALL TIME: - Europe: Tues 5th Nov, 7pm UK time (8pm CET) - USA: Tues 5th Nov, 11am PST (2pm EST) - Oceania: Wed 6th Nov, 8am NZ time (Wed 6th Nov, 6am Sydney time) Message or email me if you won't make it and want questions answered, and let me know if you're keen for the hot seat (next is Hemi). Zoom link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/82202610772