What would you suggest I put as a non negociable habits?

I recommend for everyone to build up your confidence around girls, I did that by cold aproaching at least 1 girl a day (that i found atractive). And also these days all girls are obsessed with social media so build a professional instagram account and reach out to cute girls in ur area, or u can also use snapchatt and add some girls and just by texting u will improve, Just Be Yourself and you will get what you want! Also be different from others and be the smooth one who just can slide in dm’s and go to a date and have a great night with her after 1st or 2nd meetu up/date. Whenever you feel like u just can’t go up to her and just say hello or compliment just think of you standing on a cliff , whenever u feel afraid to jump, that’s when you jump , otherwise u end up staying in the same place. Also you can just say to girl “hey, i think your beautiful” and just walk away and don’t ask for anything, she will be in shcok and maybe even run after you, because these days girls expect that men will ask for their number or something like that.