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Body Counts in 2024 - What’s Reasonable?
Gents, Wanted to get the communities opinion on what a reasonable body count is for a woman these days? From personal experience I’ve dated woman as plates/LTRs in the age range or 24-27. At this age range, they are almost all near having had sex with 20 different men (+/- 4ish, as reported to me, who knows if the number is truthful or not) I’m finding it extremely difficult to find woman even close to the single digits. What’s reasonable these days? Cheers.
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New comment Oct 3
1 like • Sep 26
@Paul Benjamin kindly bless the community with your wisdom on the matter
Girl bringing up past run-ins with celebrities & high status men, shit test or something more?
Hey Fellas, First time posting in here, wanted to get the communities opinion on something I ran into with a chick I’ve been seeing. Some background I’m 29 she’s 24 we both live in NYC and have been seeing each other for a little over a month now, she is an attractive girl. While out last night, she brought up she was at a friends birthday dinner/party at a rooftop spot where other people there included known celebrities and musicians as guests who she told me she talked with there. She told me her friend who is a model used to date this actor who came up in our conversation earlier in the night. I read this as a shit test by her to see if I would be insecure with her being around these kinds of men and joked that my guy friend also used to date the actor and that he swings both ways. She laughed at my obvious sarcasm and we continued on with night. Later in the evening after having sex she asked if I knew this guys name who is a CEO of a large public company. I said I haven’t heard of him, then she let me know that she met him out in the city one night and asked for her number and texted her the following morning but she ghosted him. I joked with her again and said you probably should have responded you could have had a nice sugar baby situation for yourself if you followed up with him if you’re into that sort of thing. She laughed again and we moved onto normal conversation. I’ve had girls bring up hanging out with celebrities and athletes while dating in the past like this but this seemed more calculated to me and really a shit test of sorts to see how I would react to her being around these kinds of high status men. Wanted to get the communities opinions and feedback on what you think her angle may have been with this and how to properly handle moving forward if this subject comes up again. For further background she’s constantly asking when she can see me again and has brought up inviting me and seeing me for future events and trips to see me for when I’m spending my winter in Florida out of the city.
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New comment Sep 17
4 likes • Sep 15
@John Rogalsky All valid and fair points, thank you for the honesty. I think you’re right in that I’m getting emotionally invested way too early at this stage. That is because she does check a lot of the boxes and this was the first potential warning sign since we’ve started seeing each other. I wanted to get feedback as early as possible bc she is already trying to move things along quickly like visiting me in Florida for weekends and inviting me to her family’s vacation home for New Year’s Eve. This will have to be an area I keep an eye and ears out for moving forward if it ultimately progresses from plate to something beyond that
2 likes • Sep 17
@Paul Benjamin thank you so much for taking the time out to address my post. This clears up everything for me. Still in the casual phase but I see there is potential with this one, will keep this in my back pocket if and when the time comes to progress things along further.
Mindset Weekend: PLEASE READ!!
THIS IS NOT AVAILABLE TO PUBLIC (meaning outside of this forum) What is needed: I am planning an Apex Mindset Event for later this summer, but I have 2 guys with scheduling concerns that need to do it earlier, like in the next couple weeks. I NEED ONE MORE GUY TO AGREE TO DO IT, and then we can have a small, very close event. I don't have time to do a video piece on it or landing page or all the normal stuff. So you are going to have to trust me. These events are worth it, and will change you for the rest of your life. I was going to just push it off until later this summer with other things I have on my plate, but with 2 requests from guys really wanting to do it, we are going to try a smaller, more personalized thing. What it is: This is a 3 day event that changes your brain, thus allowing you to make some serious transformations. A mindset event isn't just a hang out. It is 3 days of SERIOUS inner work. You will be entirely different in 3 days. This is not something I can "scale" or do with a massive group. I have to work very closely with each person to ensure you get maximum benefit. What it entails: Preparation: Some stuff to do leading up to the event, and setting expectations and intentions. Takes a few hours of time within a week. Day 1: Travel and Arrival. Settle in. Go over intentions and expectations. Start some neuroimaging meditation. Hang out and have fun of course. Day 2: Deeper work with neuro and biofeedback. Reducing food intake and prep (I'll provide food this day). Prep space. Breathwork Psilocybin Ceremony (8 hours) End day intentions Day 3: Breathwork, Neurofeedback meditation, Hypnosis. Travel Home. Travel and Lodging: Nearby motel (very low cost; has a rural campsite type feel but clean, about $100 per night) I will host everything else at my home considering this is only limited to 3. We can discuss transportation details as needed. Cost for event is $3800. We can work out financing if needed. Some perspective on cost:
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New comment Jun 19
1 like • Jun 17
@Paul Benjamin is the price for the weekend an all-in price? I.e., does it include flights, hotel, food etc.? If not, what are expected out of pocket expenses for the trip. Thanks.
IOIs Module
Hey Guys, Does anyone know in which course and module name I can find in depth review of indicators of interest “IOIs” ? Thanks in advance gents.
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New comment Jun 5
Sexpionage - Woman's Sexual Decision
Hey Paul & Community, On last weeks zoom call and the early course material, Paul discusses how the decision for a woman to have sex is made when the perceived benefits outweigh the perceived risks. My question is what are some examples of these risks and what language/acts can you use to reduce these perceived risks without compromising your authority etc. My preliminary thoughts on some of these perceived risks are as follows: -Physical harm: I.e., will this guy physically hurt me, abuse me. etc.? -Social consequences: Will my group of friends judge me for hooking up with this guy? I am having trouble identifying other perceived risks and the process to reduce them in her eyes. Thank you for all help on this topic in advance.
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New comment May 9
1 like • May 9
@Paul Benjamin this was awesome thank you. Cleared up my understanding and provided excellent practical examples that I can put into realtime practice.
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Nick D'Auria
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@nick-dauria-3095
28 years old Based out of New York Looking for like minded individuals who are creating the best versions of themselves

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