Sexpionage - Woman's Sexual Decision

Hey Paul & Community,

On last weeks zoom call and the early course material, Paul discusses how the decision for a woman to have sex is made when the perceived benefits outweigh the perceived risks.

My question is what are some examples of these risks and what language/acts can you use to reduce these perceived risks without compromising your authority etc.

My preliminary thoughts on some of these perceived risks are as follows:

-Physical harm: I.e., will this guy physically hurt me, abuse me. etc.?

-Social consequences: Will my group of friends judge me for hooking up with this guy?

I am having trouble identifying other perceived risks and the process to reduce them in her eyes. Thank you for all help on this topic in advance.

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