Hi bros, I'm Jenn from Malaysia

Jenn Ven Thong

18h ago in 📜 General Discussion

🕴🏼 Hey, I’m Jenn!

I live in Kuala Lumpur and my goal is to reach the Male Advantage

I want to get these 3 things from this community:

Lessons from older brothers
Brainwash myself with the right mindset
Life setup and framing lessons

My biggest struggles are:

PMO addiction
Noises in my head (mostly anxious about uncertainty of future)
Socializing without sounding like NPC

A little background about my journey (span of 2-3 years):

1. Physically: I was a twig, I have gotten to the gym consistently for 6 months now and gained my first 2.5kg of lean muscle mass. I am now a fatter twig.

2. Mentally: I struggled a lot with noises in my head, a lot of self doubts and negative thoughts. I have done journaling and meditation for some time, but I am not consistent enough. Time and life progression made me grow out of it so I am feeling better now.

3. Current Efforts: I got into corporate consultancy job, so that helps keeping my brain occupied. It also helps with (what Kris says), learning to act, speak and dress professionally too. I am sticking with gym still, hoping to build another 2.5 kg of muscles before I cut. I am doing my best to stay off of debts with the only debt being my student loan for now (and also staying single).

To be completely honest, I don't know what I am doing most of the time. I don't know if I am making progress since my head defaults to seeing progress as checkboxes getting ticked off instead of achievements.

I don't know what I am meant to do yet and I don't know what lies ahead. So I'm doing a bit of everything now to see what sticks.

Thanks for reading this far, attached is the picture of me during 20 yo and I am now 22.

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