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Anxiety: Conventional Remedies vs. Superneuroplasticity. IGG Ep. #67 Come ask us questions in the chat! https://www.youtube.com/live/dGRnOJOLtcQ?si=j_cCqv5TsP538QNd
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Can you guys help me? Any tips?
My brother is living with me and my father. He turned 29 this year. I try my best to connect with him but being around him feels uncomfortable. He were close as kids but our mother wasn't too kind with both of us. I can go on but he now gives similar treatment as my mother once did. I'm 26 now and I've been getting this treatment between the age of 10 - 13. He deals with it by getting drunk and then beings by taking down on me with anger and cockiness. He told me today what he does this by 'trying to help'. He tells me that he 'hates me'. I don't know why. I sometimes see him smile when he treats me poorly. I can't move out right now, but when I get a job in Pentesting I will be able to travel. From there, I was thinking to never see him again, as I did with my mother. I just saw briefly after 2 years. I feel/think that my brother let me down. Any tips would be appreciated.
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New comment Jun 25
2 likes • Jun 24
I don't care who you are in my life. No one gets a license to treat me poorly. Good comes in, bad stays out. And anyone who tries to guilt you into tolerating bad behavior because they are "family" is wrong. If he changes, he can be welcomed back, you are always allowed to change your mind. But if you don't enforce your boundaries, no one else will.
Is this normal?
I’m starting to notice that the more I use self hypnosis, the less likely I want to listen to depressing music, the news, and I want to avoid toxic people even more.
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New comment Aug 16
5 likes • Jun 21
I literally had to remake my whole main playlist on Spotify for this reason haha, I didn't realize how much of a downer I used to be
Always ask "why?"
If anyone struggles with letting feelings go into the tornado, the best question you must ask yourself (immediately during the tornado part) is "why am I struggling to let this go?" Usually it's because certain feelings keep you safe, and you won't be able to let go until you feel safe. Analyze why using the DTTF, and listen to the audio again.
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New comment Mar 21
Hatred re-ignited for my mom
Just got back from a 10 day family vacation and being around my mom for so long only re-ignited the hatered I have for her. I’ve done gestalt a couple months ago and felt like I got a lot of relief from that. But she has certain behaviours that trigger me and she also negatively treats my dad all of which only reignited the hatred I have for her. And when I mean hatred, it’s coming from a place of “I can’t wait until she dies.” I have zero remorse.
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New comment Feb 8
2 likes • Feb 8
I experienced something similar recently someone in my family. After some mental analysis, I realized that I couldn't let the anger go towards that person because I felt the anger kept me safe. You may be different, but maybe you need to address the feeling of why you can't let the anger go. If you find it's keeping you safe (or maybe something else), address that issue first, then the anger will follow. Hope that helps!
3 likes • Feb 8
Anger helped me stay aware of the problem. If I stayed angry, I would be unlikely to get hurt again in the same way.
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Jordan Kurtz
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I am a trauma-clearing hypnotist, dedicated to helping people end their limiting beliefs to unlock their full potential.

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