Ghosted after a first date (TLDR)

This happend recently but I want to discuss it for the future.

I don't wish to bury the lead, I couldn't stop the emotional investment on this one, girls a great prospect.

A recent first date went well, but then in retrospect I realized I was a bit pushy to get her back to mine, then she kinda just ghosted after the date.

After the date, I was still happy with the result despite this so I sent her a text some hours later that she was fun to hangout and would like to see her again, then the ghost. Now, this is the first time I've been ghosted, my plan would currently be to ask her if everythings alright maybe after the weekend or something.

My main question of this discussion is, do you calibrate your takeaway with how you messed up, maybe I say that "I might've given the wrong impression, of course I want to have fun but I might've been a bit disrespectful" (I will say it in a nonqualifying way, but maybe it just is qualifying by me even reaching out). The other side of me could just next her and see my other girls, then again I don't want to leave good prospects on the table and maybe I can save this.

TLDR; If you mess up a little on a date, do you try-, and how do you try to keep seeing her after she ghosts.

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