14d ago (edited) in General discussion
Sexual action thresholds, and why and how they work.
I sent this to by Dm, but figured I would ask for clarity as to why girls put walls like this up, or in this case I feel a sexual action threshold. I coped pasted the DM directly below. I just want clerty on why girls have the sexual action threshold and see if this was the resistance I saw below. This was a older woman 50 lol 😁. Her daughter is away at navy boot camp and kinda set us up at a going away party. Totally casual. The daughter worked under me at one point. No longer in thet organization.
Long story short. I went on a few dates with one of my coworkers Mom's lol. She left for boot camp and interduced me at her going away party. We went out for drinks a few weeks later the first night at baccos wine bar. I texted her because I had got her number at the party but did not reach out for a few weeks. We had a fun time. We enjoyed some good drinks and conversations. She already knows that this was casual cuz her daught warned her I was not the settling down sort. Lol. I ended up making out with her after walking her to her car. ( That's normally the place I'll push for a first kiss). The 2nd date I texted her that we would hit the golf range, then come back to my place for some wine and fun. 🥂😏.
We hit some balls. She was a bit self conscious and scared to hit the balls in front of others, but I made her get out of her comfort zone in a flirty way.
We made out in my room. Had a good time, opened a bottle of wine. I even tied her up with some bdsm restraints. But after going for the pants to take them off she gave me the "be good line". And said sex is not happening. I just smiled and ended up taking off her shirt. I'm on top of her at this point. Sucking on her tits ext.. I go for the pants again and she said be good. This was the 2nd time of saying no. Basically 3 times. At this point she gave me a simaler line as she gave you. She asked me "are you mad, you are used to just getting your way with girls." Then went on to tell me about how she friend zoned her ex boyfriend . I laughed, said I never been friend zoned then said why the fuck would I be mad, in a playful voice. I took my pants off, and pulled my dick out and told her to suck it. She did. Like a pro. Ended up face fucking her. She told me to lay on my back. Long story short she gave one of the best blow jobs I have had and ended up cuming in her mouth. She did not even hesitate to swallow.
After the sexual encounter we shot the shit. She told me about how her first husband was abusive, and her last boy friend who she called her "alter boy" did not know how to sexually please her and had a online addiction talking to girls...
Any way the breakdown. I feel like she had her sexual threshold up. With her comments. Also a few weeks later when I texted her, she said I don't want to be one of your bitches. And don't you know a quality woman when you see one. All in kind of a funny tone. She also said "you do know I see through your ladies man banter. We had some more light hearted humors banter on text and I let it die after my response.
Sounds to me she is letting her ego get to her and is protecting herself from being a "bad girl" or feeling like a bad mother. It's almost she needs the comfort to know it's okay to have fun with me. And we did have fun. All in all a learning lession and a fun one at that.
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Sexual action thresholds, and why and how they work.
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