How to always have something interesting to say to a girl to keep her interested and seduced?

Hi guys, actualy my question is a little bit strange but it happend to me two or three times and I wanna share it with you and ask your opinion. As you know after make out or sex it would be a smell from women vigina (which is not very pleseant of course) but sometimes it happens when I am talking to a friend or classmate (girl obviously😆) after about 10 minutes or so I can feel that smell , strong smell, ! let's say after a normal discussion or when she touch my arms few times! Even without doing anything I could feel those smell from them and it's bizzare! I just wondering why and do you have the same experience ?

Quick one here this morning, but a powerful one for us all. Theres always a lot of talk about being a girls best, and how it’s essential to keep any LTR going over the years. Whats seldomly talked about though is when you are a girls best, but the relationship still fails… I dealt with flavors of this dynamic over the summer when my ex LTR and I split and then tried to get back together. She would communicate how much she loved me, how she was scared to live without me and wondered if she’d go the rest of her life regretting not choosing to stay together. It was a confusing message at the time, and still is to a degree, however after coaching with Paul the last few months I feel better prepared to handle the lesson. When my ex LTR and I are on, the relationship is one of the best things I’ve ever experienced. Her desire is off the charts and she begins to compliment my life in ways that’s hard to find. But like all relationships, when we start to hit a hurdle, her low self esteem gets triggered and she goes into protection mode. Subconsciously she knows I’m her best, and giving a dominant man like myself gives me the power to hurt her. Paul always says a girl losing her alpha communicates DEATH to the monkey brain, and women will do all sorts of things to protect themselves if they aren’t capable of surrendering to a relationship. Deep down some women know when they are sitting across from the best man they’ll likely ever be with, and rather than be vulnerable during challenging times, they fight for power in order to feel safe and secure. Below is a screenshot from my ex, whom at least for now we are still seeing each other casually without commitment in order to take a lot of pressure off of ourselves. We got together last Friday night for drinks and had an amazing time together. The screenshot below is from a few days later. The old me would’ve been confused by this message : if I’m her best/alpha, why isn’t she fighting to be with me? The reality is, a woman who is capable doesn’t have the capacity to fight due to her fear of being abdandonded or discarded.

Another quick one this morning but spinning off of my post yesterday, when desire isn’t enough… Last week I cold approached a girl at the grocery store; but it was a pretty warm lead. She works at the store and has given me obvious signs of wanting me to approach, but I never moved it past more than a smile out of respect for my LTR at the time. Last Friday we happened to cross paths and she waived to me with a big smile. Now that I’m single I didn’t want to let an easy opener pass by. We exchanged some banter for a few mins, she was asking date type questions (do you work for that company, how old is your dog, how is your week) and I closed with her instagram telling her we’ll grab drinks. A half hour later she followed me back and watched my stories, more signs of high interest. I had a busy weekend and held off until on opening her on IG, but hit her up on Sunday evening. She’s only watched one of my stories since, and hasn’t opened/replied to my opener. My old framework would’ve been : man what did I do wrong, I thought for sure she was into me… After chatting with Paul, I now know I can create desire in a woman, and more importantly I’m getting more familiar with what that looks like. With my new mindset, I’m starting consider more nuanced possibilities. Maybe I didn’t do anything wrong, maybe I killed it and she does have high desire, but maybe there’s something with HER. Maybe there’s a guy in the picture but she couldn’t help but flirt with me, or she doesn’t think a guy like me would want more than a hook up and she isn’t in that kind of place right now etc. We tend to focus too much on the negatives instead of the nuance. I believe this is where strong inner game comes in. What types of situations have you guys run into where the interaction goes really well but for one reason or another it stalls out? And for @Paul Benjamin what are some of the things we can look for to see if it’s a game issue, or a woman issue when dealing with these types of situations?

I've stuck to the morning routine of waking up and within about 10 minutes doing some visualization or meditation. I've used audio aids and just swapped between Theta waves or an "Om" chant I've found on youtube. Still working on clearing my thoughts for the meditations. For the visualization I've also been working on doing the work along the way and making the right choices. Not just the end state. Similar to what is common practice among athletes and I believe Paul mentions it in the video where a study was done. One group of students only visualized making a good grade and/or the end state and the emotions involved with the outcome. The other group of students imagined studying and doing the work. More focus on the practice portion than the end state. The students who visualized the practice and studying got better grades than the other group. So, my thought here is to focus on working on and fixing things along the way as well as that vision for where I'd like to be. I also meditate or do visualization the sauna at the gym about 4-5 days a week as well as in the tanning bed2-3 times a week. Seems like a very useful time to do it and there is very little distraction in those places. Still continuing to tweak things as far as routine to see what I think is most effective.